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I am a child of divorced parents

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I am a child of divorced parents, I am.       I never thought, this will be a part of my life. Nobody wants this kind of situation to be inside one's life. I thank you I have been grown accustomed to it. I'm writing to express my feeling of being one of them children with divorced parents . Every day I wish that they my dad & mom will be back together again. At one time, I give up and just let it be. I don't want to care anymore cos' they are dominated by ego. I can't help. Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you. Deut. 31:6 A word of God that inspired me to be strong till' now.  Dad & mom had a fight that day. That is the beginning of the story. Dad never come home, he decided to go. We the siblings have persuaded dad many times to come back home. He did not listen, he feels comfortable to be alone, single again. But he did not k...

That moment when somebody complains about you

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I feel bad right now. Why? Cos' I just being called to the principal room. One of my students' parents talked bad about my tuition class, well ... what do you think they might say about? Sigh. This is really bad. The parents complained that I didn't teach their son. And I talk less. I was in utter shock. Did I? oh my gosh, why he said like that, it was a lie. I did teach and explain to him in his maths study. He's the one who kept playing around, not serious in his study and wasting time. He was. This wondering why kept playing around my mind and forcing me to confront the student. So what happened just now is, he came to my room after school and asked him about the issue. Then, what do you expect him to say? Well, I have no idea if he's really honest in every words he said. But here is his explanation. He's a bit surprise, I know from his tone .  He said: my mom must be misheard & misunderstood! I said to her that you teach me when I don...

Total loss car Insurance Claim

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Good morning & have a nice day all. It's been 2 months & 4 days since the car accident I had last time. Praise to the Lord for this test makes me even stronger than I am before. I have been through a lot in the past days. I learned something about this life, friendship, & family :) Since I have never experienced in dealing with any car insurance before, well I was thinking it would be an interesting topic to talk about. Who knows this sharing might benefit others who really wanted to know the process on claiming a total loss car insurance. So I only got to know my car insurance was Axa Affin when Perodua declared my car as total loss ( repair cost of a damaged property exceeds the value of it s  policy ) . Big mistake is happened here, you gotta know what is your car Insurance at the first place. Have the policy & read. The car dealer I deal with, never mention about this though. Don't even know I will be charged RM400 as penalty for driving und...

Happy Labor Day!!

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It's 5.37pm & I'm still in the office. I don't take overtime...I just wasting my time blogging on net. No need to hurry as tomorrow gonna be the labor day! Happy labor day to all workers:) This is a celebration for working people by not working. This might not an interesting topic to share with you guys, but just layan saja lah kan hehe. I have been working for 2 years and half now, with different fields and different kind of jobs.  I remember the first job I did was working part time as an Internet Assistant a.k.a cashier in a cyber cafe for a month. I was still a student, and I need money $$ desperately to pay my short term college fee around RM2k. I spent all my PTPTN money into useless things. Well, I was having fun all the times without thinking the future I'm gonna face. I was quiet a spendthrift, I spent a lot on foods. Still. hehe My family always remind me to control my desire of things I wanted and use money in a useful ways. I've ...

Tragedy 'Good Friday'

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Hi all!  I'm coming Office today after a long sick holiday. A bitter tragedy happened on me last Friday (18 April 2014). Just few of my friends know what has happened. & some still wondering as I posted one of my latest picture on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/alviana.jadin) Friends contacted me via Wechat, Facebook Chat & Phone Sms asking me why. First of all I apologise for ignoring all the question why. I didn't mean to hide the truth where I was involved in a very bad accident. I just don't want people are worry about me. Especially those who really care for me. Thank you very much. I appreciate it very well. Last Friday, My younger brother & I were on our way back to Kota Marudu, our village. We left Inanam, Kota Kinabalu around 7am after having our breakfast. I drove my car for the first time without someone expert beside me. I supposed to follow from behind of one of my friend heading to Kota Marudu as well, but can't manage to d...

Scratched bumper, whose fault?

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  Howdy guys:)   What a bad  day, today. Someone has just hit my back bumper and there is a 15cm scratch long. Well since this is my first experience, I just have no idea what to do. I supposed to stop my car & check it out but I didn't do that. I feel so nervous and alone. If only I have that courage ...   Long & deepen scratch!   So, this is how it happened. It was 8.40am, & I knew it's already late morning to arrive office and to get a parking is too hard now. I had to round it over and over again. As I looked for a parking, I heard something hard scratching at my rear bumper. I didn't expect a car beside  me which is stopped a while ago with phone, slowly moved towards and didn't give me a way! ugh! I saw you, mam! SAA 8858 F     However I can't do anything. She left. Now, I have no idea what should I do. B umper repair can be pretty costly. I called my friend and ask...

2014 Wish came true: Samsung S4

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Samsung S4     I've never had a smart phone before until I met Samsung S4. When I first saw it, I really wanted it to be mine someday but it is very costly, I would not get it. It might be hard now as I need to pay the car monthly. As there is a saying, if you can dream you can do it. So I whisper a wish to a butterfly and it will fly up to heaven and make it come true. I know it sounds nonsense:)   My bestie Phone & I (red) In early  February 2014, I managed to afford a Samsung S4 with the cost of RM 1xxx. Thanks to one of my friend who sponsored it for me! :) Why do I choose Samsung S4? So the idea is simple. I was attracted with the phone camera as it holds 13 mega pixels. What can you help for someone who loves taking pictures of wonderful views around, picture of beach & sunset, and of course picture of selfie :D If I own this phone I would no need to have a camera with me anymore. It's like 2 in 1 package.  Selfie ...

2014 Wish came true: Viva Ivory white

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Viva Ivory white     Like everyone else in this world, dreaming to afford a car is one of the wish that has been listed down every year. I do have this dream long time ago. I dreamed a mini cooper but it’s too expensive for me to buy now. So I start a simple step and trying to get a new and affordable car.  Then Viva Ivory White came out in the middle of January 2014. This is my first dream I’ve achieved in 2014!         Though it’s a simple car and many say easy to loan, but for me it is not as easy as you think since I'm working with a private company. I’ve failed to apply loan with a bank, none of them. Pretty sure Toyota Capital is not a chosen banker; cause of its high interest and that’s killing me! I can’t do anything but to thank God.   With deposit around RM3973.40 and monthly payment around RM387 I managed to have my first car. I’m so happy but new challenge occurs. I can’t drive on the road! Driving a manual car ...

Fall in love with Shangri-La's Tanjung Aru Resort and Spa - Kota Kinabalu

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CIMB media night 2014 celebration Hello Morning! :)   I'm back! So sorry I haven't written in so long.  It's already New Year 2014; time goes so fast I don't even aware of it. Anyway, I had an exciting dinner last night with all medias in Sabah, they are from Borneo Post, Sabah Times, RTM, daily mail and those I haven't mention except my media, where I work with now, Borneo Insider. Borneo Insider is a newspaper online just officially published in January 2013, still new fresh & still learning how to stand alone. Behind the scene So I have this friend who works in Sabah Times just 1 and half months long. This is the first I joined her to do her work as reporter. Usually I hate to attend this kind of event which is in my thinking wasting my time & I feel so small among them. I'm not one of them (reporter ...) that is what was playing in my mind. But hell yeah, I want the FOOD! I can imagine the delicious foods on the table already. haha ...